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Quotes from Be Good To Women Day 2010

Monday, April 12th, 2010

“This needs to go from a day to being a movement. We need to have a Be Good to Women Movement.”

—Rev. Kamal Hassan


“See, it’s not about what you wear or how you wear your hair, or how much money you’ve got or what kind of man you’re rolling with. Your intrinsic worth is that you are created in the image and likeness of almighty God.”

—Rev. Cassandra Thomas-Wright


“In my church most of the men have been really messed up by John Wayne and the Marlboro Manthe strong silent type. If you can’t claim your tender self, if you can’t claim your vulnerable self, you can’t claim your real self, you can’t claim your whole self….to be a whole human being you have to claim all of your emotions.

—Rev. Kamal Hassan


“In your own mind know that you’re a queen. In your own mind know that you have intrinsic worth and value.”

—Rev. Cassandra Thomas-Wright

I WANT AN EVERYDAY MAN

Tuesday, March 16th, 2010

I WANT AN EVERYDAY MAN

Written by Joan Taylor Sanders

March 14, 2010. at a Vesper Service of
Bryant Temple A.M.E. Church
Inspired by the Holy Spirit & A
Roberto Miranda Concert)

I want an everyday man.
Not a holiday, can’t stay man.
Not a vampire like man
Appearing only when his needs bring him to my bed
Leaving before the light of day
Leaving me just a remembrance of his physicality
And words that don’t keep me safe or sheltered from day to day.

I want an everyday man.
Dedicated, committed, staying,
Embracing joyfully a life with me and mine
Through every season a can do everyday man
Clear in mind, sweet in spirit,
Determined to keep love between us and ours flowing

I want an everyday man,
A hard times can’t drive away man,
A truth telling without yelling obscenities man
Strong in faith, solid in resolve to live a life
Pleasing to God.

Do you… have you an everyday man in your life.
Blessed and highly favored are you.
Lift him prayerfully… carefully be
An everyday good woman, daughter, son
For this jewel given you.

Photos from a reception honoring a Great Woman, Angela Davis

Tuesday, February 23rd, 2010

The Beginning

Sunday, February 14th, 2010

Brad Sanders & Deya Smith, the founders of Be Good to Women Day

NATIONALLY SYNDICATED RADIO PERSONALITY DEMANDS BLACK COMMUNITY ADDRESS THE ISSUE OF SEXUAL AND PHYSICAL ABUSE OF BLACK WOMEN

“Ti-Rone,” the virtual Dr. Phil of urban radio shocked listeners of his nationally syndicated radio program, ON THE PHONE WITH TI-RONE earlier this month when he called for an end to violence, both sexual and physical, and the negative objectification of Black women, not only by their own community but by much of the entertainment industry.

Ti-Rone’s impassioned plea, which brought an instant response from radio listeners coast-to-coast, comes at a time when the media and entertainment industry are embroiled in a growing controversy over language, imagery and behavior which has been perceived as demeaning and derogatory not only to Black women, but the entire female population.

Radio veteran Brad Sanders, who portrays the character of Ti-Rone, quotes alarming figures to justify his call to action that were recently released by American Jails, The Magazine of the American Jail Association, which has drawn the following dramatic conclusions:

National Correctional Institutions report dramatic rise in minority female population with histories of sexual and physical abuse, mental health problems, alcohol and drug dependency and lack of education and skills.

Sanders made a fervent plea to his listeners during his nationally syndicated radio program stating “We have got to stop seeing and treating our women as if they are just receptacles for our 30-second gratification. And stop this old pimp stuff. What the hell are we doing to ourselves? We are treating our women, who would be the precious bearers of our seed, the beloved mothers of our children, like she ain’t nothing but garbage! Now if we can’t deal with that, then we should shut the hell up! You ain’t got nothing to tell me about anything that is fair and proper when we don’t treat ourselves or our women as they ought to be treated. Okay, don’t get me wrong, I like rap music like everyone else, but I do not like anything that disrespects our women. I am tired of it! I am tired of saying nothing about it and I am tired of nobody else saying anything about it and it’s time for us to speak truth to power. Women are our lifeblood and we must stop treating them like dirt.”

Deya Smith-Starks, Sanders’ co-host for ON THE PHONE WITH TI-RONE spontaneously added her own personal affirmation to his plea, stating “Black women have been waiting for Black men and the Black community to take a stand against the corruption and debasement of all women, particularly Black women, in the entertainment industry. We are the jewels in the crown of the Black community and should be treated as such.”